About the song
“Can We Still Be Friends” by Todd Rundgren is a poignant reflection on the complexities of relationships and the inevitability of parting ways. Released in 1978 as part of his album ‘Hermit of Mink Hollow,’ the song quickly became a standout hit, reaching #29 on the US Billboard Hot 100 and #8 in Australia. Todd Rundgren, known for his versatility as a musician, wrote, performed, and produced the track entirely by himself, showcasing his mastery across multiple instruments and vocal styles.
The lyrics of “Can We Still Be Friends” delve into the aftermath of a relationship that despite efforts to mend, ultimately falls apart. Rundgren’s soulful delivery captures the emotional weight of accepting that some connections are not meant to last. Throughout the song, he delicately asks the poignant question, “Can we still be friends?” This plea underscores a desire for amicable separation despite the pain of romantic dissolution.
The inspiration behind the song is widely believed to stem from Rundgren’s personal experiences, particularly his breakup with Bebe Buell in 1977, a relationship that held significant meaning in his life. The raw honesty in the lyrics resonates with listeners who have experienced the bittersweet end of a meaningful connection.
Beyond its initial release, “Can We Still Be Friends” has left a lasting cultural impact. In 1994, the song gained renewed popularity when it was prominently featured in the hit film ‘Dumb and Dumber,’ where Rundgren also contributed to the film’s score. Its inclusion in the soundtrack of ‘Vanilla Sky’ (2001) and the TV series ‘Nip/Tuck’ further solidified its status as a timeless piece that continues to evoke introspection and emotional resonance.
Todd Rundgren’s ability to blend heartfelt lyrics with his musical prowess has ensured that “Can We Still Be Friends” remains a classic representation of the complexities of human relationships, enduring as a testament to his enduring talent and emotional depth.
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Lyrics
We can’t play this game anymore, but
Can we still be friends?
Things just can’t go on like before, but
Can we still be friends?
We had something to learn
Now it’s time for the wheel to turn
Things are said one by one
Before you know it’s all gone
Let’s admit we made a mistake, but
Can we still be friends?
Heartbreak’s never easy to take, but
Can we still be friends?
It’s a strange sad affair
Sometimes seems like we just don’t care
Don’t waste time feeling hurt
We’ve been through hell together
La la la la, la la la la
Can we still be friends?
Can we still get together sometime?
We awoke from our dream
Things are not always what they seem
Memories linger on
It’s like a sweet sad old song