About the song
Introducing “That’s The Way I Always Heard It Should Be” by Carly Simon, a poignant ballad that encapsulates the complexities of love, marriage, and societal expectations. Released in 1971 as part of her self-titled debut album, this song marked the beginning of Carly Simon’s illustrious career as a singer-songwriter.
Crafted by Carly Simon herself alongside collaborator Jacob Brackman, “That’s The Way I Always Heard It Should Be” emerged as a powerful reflection on the pressures and disillusionments that often accompany romantic relationships. With its haunting melody and introspective lyrics, the song struck a chord with audiences, earning critical acclaim and commercial success.
Upon its release, “That’s The Way I Always Heard It Should Be” climbed the music charts, capturing the hearts of listeners around the world. Its evocative portrayal of love’s complexities resonated deeply with audiences, propelling it to the upper echelons of the Billboard charts and solidifying Carly Simon’s place in the music industry.
This timeless ballad remains a staple in Carly Simon’s repertoire, celebrated for its raw honesty and emotional depth. Its enduring popularity serves as a testament to Simon’s songwriting prowess and her ability to capture the universal experiences of love and longing.
So, join us as we embark on a journey through the intimate landscapes of relationships with Carly Simon’s “That’s The Way I Always Heard It Should Be,” a classic gem that continues to resonate with listeners of all ages.
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Lyrics
My father sits at night with no lights on
His cigarette glows in the dark.
The living room is still;
I walk by, no remark.
I tiptoe past the master bedroom where
My mother reads her magazines.
I hear her call sweet dreams,
But I forgot how to dream.But you say it’s time we moved in together
And raised a family of our own, you and me –
Well, that’s the way I’ve always heard it should be:
You want to marry me, we’ll marry.My friends from college they’re all married now;
They have their houses and their lawns.
They have their silent noons,
Tearful nights, angry dawns.
Their children hate them for the things they’re not;
They hate themselves for what they are-
And yet they drink, they laugh,
Close the wound, hide the scar.But you say it’s time we moved in together
And raised a family of our own, you and me –
Well, that’s the way I’ve always heard it should be:
You want to marry me, we’ll marry.You say we can keep our love alive
Babe – all I know is what I see –
The couples cling and claw
And drown in love’s debris.
You say we’ll soar like two birds through the clouds,
But soon you’ll cage me on your shelf –
I’ll never learn to be just me first
By myself.Well O.K., it’s time we moved in together
And raised a family of our own, you and me –
Well, that’s the way I’ve always heard it should be,
You want to marry me, we’ll marry,
We’ll marry.