About the song
Holding Her and Loving You is a timeless country ballad by the legendary Earl Thomas Conley, released in 1987. This heartfelt song, with its poignant lyrics and Conley’s soulful vocals, has captured the hearts of countless listeners over the years.
Conley, known for his rich baritone voice and ability to convey deep emotions, delivers a masterclass in storytelling through this track. “Holding Her and Loving You” paints a vivid picture of a man torn between his love for his wife and his longing for a past lover. The song’s central theme explores the complexities of human relationships and the enduring power of love.
The song’s arrangement is simple yet effective, featuring acoustic guitar, steel guitar, and a gentle rhythm section. This stripped-down approach allows Conley’s vocals to take center stage, emphasizing the emotional depth of the lyrics. The melody is both catchy and melancholic, perfectly complementing the song’s reflective tone.
“Holding Her and Loving You” is a testament to Conley’s enduring appeal as a country music icon. His ability to connect with listeners on a personal level has made him a beloved figure in the genre. This classic ballad continues to resonate with audiences of all ages, serving as a reminder of the timeless power of love and loss.
Video
Lyrics
It’s the third-hardest thing I’ll ever do
Leavin’ here without you
And the second-hardest thing I’ll ever do
Is tellin’ her about you
She’s been good to me when things were goin’ rough
How can I tell her now, good ain’t good enough
Oh, the hardest thing I’ve ever had to do
Is holding her, and loving you
If she’d give me one good reason, I’d be gone
She ain’t done one thing wrong
So don’t expect me just to walk out of the door
I still love her, but I love you more
She’s been good to me when things weren’t goin’ right
She made my days long before you made my nights
So the hardest thing I’ve ever had to do
Is holding her, and loving you
Yeah, the hardest thing I’ve ever have to do
Is holding her, and loving you
Girl, the hardest thing I’ve ever have to do
Is holding her, and loving you