About the song
“Stand by Your Man,” recorded by Tammy Wynette in 1968, stands as an iconic anthem in country music history. Co-written by Wynette and Billy Sherrill, this song not only catapulted Wynette to superstardom but also became a cultural touchstone that resonates to this day.
Released on September 20, 1968, as the lead single from her album of the same name, “Stand by Your Man” quickly rose to the top of the charts. It topped the U.S. country charts for three consecutive weeks and even crossed over to mainstream success, peaking at number 19 on the pop charts. The song’s universal appeal and Wynette’s heartfelt delivery cemented its place as one of the most recognizable tunes in country music history.
Despite its commercial success, “Stand by Your Man” sparked controversy during the women’s liberation movement of the late 1960s and early 1970s. Feminist groups criticized its portrayal of traditional gender roles and its message of unconditional loyalty in marriage. However, for many listeners, especially working-class housewives of the era, the song resonated deeply, reflecting their own struggles and realities within changing societal norms.
The song’s impact extended beyond its initial release. It earned Wynette a Grammy Award for Best Country Vocal Performance, Female, in 1970, highlighting her powerful vocals and emotional delivery. In 1999, it was rightfully inducted into the Grammy Hall of Fame, solidifying its enduring cultural significance.
Beyond accolades, “Stand by Your Man” found a place in popular culture. It was featured in films like Jack Nicholson’s “Five Easy Pieces” and has been covered by various artists, including The Chicks. Its inclusion in TV shows and films over the decades underscores its timeless appeal and ability to evoke powerful emotions.
In 2010, the Library of Congress recognized the song’s cultural importance by adding it to the National Recording Registry. Its inclusion on Rolling Stone’s “Top 500 Songs of All Time” list in 2021 further solidifies its status as a classic.
Tammy Wynette’s “Stand by Your Man” continues to resonate with listeners around the world, transcending generations with its poignant lyrics and soul-stirring melody. It remains a testament to Wynette’s enduring legacy as a pioneer in country music and a voice for the complexities of love, loyalty, and womanhood.
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Lyrics
Sometimes it’s hard to be a woman
Giving all your love to just one man
You’ll have bad times
And he’ll have good times
Doin’ things that you don’t understand
But if you love him you’ll forgive him
Even though he’s hard to understand
And if you love him, oh be proud of him
‘Cause after all he’s just a man
Stand by your man
Give him two arms to cling to
And something warm to come to
When nights are cold and lonely
Stand by your man
And show the world you love him
Keep giving all the love you can
Stand by your man
Stand by your man
And show the world you love him
Keep giving all the love you can
Stand by your man