About the song
Cat Stevens’ iconic song, “Father and Son,” is a poignant exploration of the generational divide, a timeless theme that resonates with audiences across decades. Released in 1970 on his groundbreaking album Tea for the Tillerman, the song paints a heartbreaking portrait of a father struggling to understand his son’s desire for independence, and a son who yearns to break free from societal expectations.
The song’s narrative unfolds through a powerful dialogue between the father and son, their contrasting voices symbolizing their differing perspectives. Stevens employs a deeper register for the father’s lines, conveying a sense of authority and tradition. In contrast, the son’s voice is higher, reflecting youthful idealism and a yearning for something more. The interplay between these voices creates a tension that drives the song’s emotional impact.
Beyond the vocal contrast, “Father and Son” is enriched by the addition of Alun Davies’ backing vocals, which introduce a unique and memorable chorus. Davies’ harmonies provide a counterpoint to Stevens’ vocals, adding depth and complexity to the song’s arrangement. The unusual nature of these refrains further enhances the song’s distinctiveness.
The song’s enduring appeal lies in its ability to transcend time and place. While inspired by the societal conflicts of the 1970s, “Father and Son” captures the universal struggle between tradition and progress, between the desire for stability and the yearning for adventure. It is a song that speaks to the hearts of listeners of all ages, reminding us of the complexities of family relationships and the challenges of growing up.
“Father and Son” has garnered widespread acclaim and recognition, solidifying Cat Stevens’ reputation as a gifted songwriter. Its inclusion on Rolling Stone’s “Top 500 Best Songs of All Time” is a testament to its enduring impact. The song’s timeless message continues to resonate with audiences today, making it a classic that will be cherished for generations to come.
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Lyrics
It’s not time to make a change
Just relax, take it easy
You’re still young, that’s your fault
There’s so much you have to know
Find a girl, settle down
If you want you can marry
Look at me, I am old but I’m happy
I was once like you are now and I know that it’s not easy
To be calm when you’ve found something going on
But take your time, think a lot
Think of everything you’ve got
For you will still be here tomorrow but your dreams may not
Oh, how can I try to explain?
‘Cause when I do he turns away again
It’s always been the same, same old story
From the moment I could talk I was ordered to listen
Now there’s a way and I know that I have to go away
I know I have to go
It’s not time to make a change
Just sit down, take it slowly
You’re still young, that’s your fault
There’s so much you have to go through
Find a girl, settle down
If you want you can marry
Look at me, I am old but I am happy
All the times that I’ve cried
Keepin’ all the things I knew inside
It’s hard but it’s harder to ignore it
If they were right I’d agree
But it’s them they know, not me
Now there’s a way and I know that I have to go away
I know I have to go