Bonnie Tyler performs “If You Were A Woman (And I Was A Man)” in 1986

About the song

Bonnie Tyler’s iconic voice, known for its powerful and emotive delivery, has captivated audiences for decades. One of her most enduring hits is “If You Were a Woman (And I Was a Man)”, a rock anthem that showcases her vocal prowess and the songwriting talents of Desmond Child and Jim Steinman.

Released in 1986 as part of her album Secret Dreams and Forbidden Fire, the song explores a gender-bending fantasy where the roles are reversed. Tyler imagines herself as a man, experiencing the heartbreak and betrayal that she has endured as a woman. The lyrics delve into themes of love, loss, and the complexities of human relationships.

With its driving guitar riffs, anthemic chorus, and Tyler’s passionate vocals, “If You Were a Woman (And I Was a Man)” is a classic rock song that has stood the test of time. The song’s popularity can be attributed to its relatable lyrics, catchy melody, and Tyler’s powerful performance.

While the song may not have achieved the same level of commercial success in the United States as some of Tyler’s other hits, it has garnered a dedicated fanbase and remains a staple in her live performances. The song’s enduring appeal lies in its ability to connect with listeners on a deep emotional level, regardless of their gender or age.

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Lyrics

How’s it feel to be a woman
How’s it feel to be a man
Are we really that different
Tell me where you stand
I look at you, you look away
Why do you say we’re night and day
I’d like to try another way
Oh baby for just one day
If you were a woman and I was a man
Would it be so hard to understand
That a heart’s a heart and we do what we can
If you were a woman and I was a man
If you were a woman and I was a man
How’s it feel to be the hunter
How’s it feel to be the prey
Is there really a reason
For this game we play
I look at you, you look away
Why do you say we’re night and day
I’d like to try another day
Oh darling, just one day
If you were a woman and I was a man
Would it be so hard to understand
That a heart’s a heart and we do what we can
If you were a woman and I was a man
If you were a woman and I was a man
Hey, we’re just two people trying to love
Oh but how, how can we love
With this wall between us, holding us back
If you were a woman and I was a man
Would it be so hard to understand
That a hearts a heart and we do what we can
If you were a woman and I was a man
If you were a woman and I was a man