About the song
Phil Spector, a name synonymous with the wall of sound, crafted “To Know Him Is to Love Him” from the poignant inscription on his father’s gravestone. This simple yet profound sentiment became the cornerstone of a song that would transcend generations and musical genres.
Originally recorded by The Teddy Bears in 1958, the song quickly ascended to the top of the Billboard Hot 100 chart. Its enduring appeal lies in its timeless message and Spector’s innovative production techniques. The arrangement, characterized by its lush harmonies and layered instrumentation, is a hallmark of the wall of sound aesthetic.
The song’s lyrical simplicity belies its emotional depth. Spector’s heartfelt tribute to his father resonates with listeners on a personal level, evoking feelings of love, loss, and longing. The 12/8 time signature and steady tempo create a contemplative atmosphere, allowing the listener to fully immerse themselves in the song’s emotional journey.
Over the years, “To Know Him Is to Love Him” has been reinterpreted by numerous artists, each adding their own unique interpretation to the classic. From the pop-oriented renditions of Peter & Gordon and Bobby Vinton to the country-infused version by Dolly Parton, Linda Ronstadt, and Emmylou Harris, the song’s enduring popularity is a testament to its versatility and emotional resonance.
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Lyrics
To know, know, know him
Is to love, love, love him
Just to see him smile
Makes my life worthwhile
To know, know, know him
Is to love, love, love him
And I do
Oo-oo, I do
I’d be good to him
I’d bring love to him
Everyone says there’ll come a day
When I’ll walk alongside of him
Yes, yes, to know him
Is to love, love, love him
And I do
Oo-oo, I do
Why can’t he see?
How blind can he be?
Someday he will see
That he was meant for me
Oh-oh, yes
To know, know, know him
Is to love, love, love him
Just to see him smile
Makes my life worthwhile
To know, know, know him
Is to love, love, love him
And I do
Oo-oo, yes, I do
Oo-oo, yes, I do